What Roy Kent Taught Me About Happiness

I was watching "Ted Lasso" the other night, and a scene featuring Roy Kent really struck me.

It beautifully depicted Roy's personal journey during his last year with Chelsea FC, where he grappled with feelings of stagnation and the sense of merely "taking up space" on the team. Despite being adored by millions of fans for his gruff and snarky demeanor, Roy felt he needed to live up to his previous standards and needed more progress.

In a bold move, Roy requested a trade to FC Richmond, a team where he would have the opportunity to be the star player. However, Richmond was a far cry from the talented and prestigious Chelsea FC. The struggling team resided at the bottom of the league and could barely fill the seats of their stadium. It was a stark contrast to the bustling atmosphere and winning tradition he experienced at Chelsea.

What struck a chord with me was Roy's candid admission that he should have stayed at Chelsea and learned to ‘enjoy himself’ despite it not aligning with his natural desire to always be moving forward. It served as a poignant reminder of our tendency to constantly strive for improvement, perpetually seeking the "next big thing" to attain a sense of accomplishment. In doing so, we often overlook the importance of taking the time to savor our achievements, reflect on our journey, and find contentment in the present moment.

Reflecting on this scene, I realize how closely it mirrors my disposition.

Like Roy, I possess a relentless drive to continually move the goalposts once I reach a milestone. It is an inherent part of my personality, and I don't intend to abandon this characteristic. I sincerely believe it is what has allowed me to be successful. However, it has also made me unhappy at times, just like Roy experienced.

Inspired by Roy's story, I am committed to allocating more time and energy to genuinely relish what I have accomplished rather than prematurely seeking the next 'thing.' It's about striking a balance between the pursuit of growth and the appreciation of the present. So, in short, we shouldn't be ashamed to strive for achievement. But let's celebrate our wins. And, then, celebrate them some more before looking for the next accomplishment.

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In other news...

We got a puppy!

Her name is Dallas. She is a Labradoodle. And very cute.

The boys love her, and for some reason, she has also taken a liking to me.

(Probably because I am the one who walks her, feeds her, and is home the most.)